Boyfriend of 2 years (best friend of 6) just told me he’s started seeing someone else. No discussion. Just ghosted me for a week and hit me with this news. Thought he was my soulmate, lmao. I feel like someone just ripped out my insides. Just turned 31 this year, this shit is not any easier than when I was a teenager.

How did you make it through that first night? The second? The third? Is it really just time? I feel like my body is too old to survive another heartbreak.

  • NightoftheLemmy
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    48 months ago

    This is the way. But comfort food could quickly become an addiction. So, pay heed to that

    • @davysnavy@lemmy.world
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      8 months ago

      Yeah God only knows how much orange chicken and rangoons I ingested that first week or so lol. But my brain desperately needed the dopamine. I also had ZERO appetite those first few days so I needed something I really loved to eat. This was only a two year relationship so I can only imagine what OP is going through (having been his best friend for 6 years)

      • cryshleeOP
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        48 months ago

        I just had a huge McDonald’s order. I haven’t had McDonald’s in years

        It’s so good 😭😩