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    6 hours ago

    I almost don’t want to. If you can’t handle honesty, truths or straightforward and shoot-straight kind of opinions. Then engaging in communication is simply not for you and nobody should have to walk on eggshells all of the time to appease someone’s incapable sense of getting the point.

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    Not often. Certainly not when I’m shouting into the void.

    When I’m answering a question or responding to a statement, I’ll generally match the level of the existing discussion. I still try to say what I mean, but I’ll try to avoid concepts with a lot of missing prerequisites. Target audience matters too, if you ask me how orbital rendezvous works, you’ll get a different answer depending on where you ask the question. For example, I’d probably skip explaining how orbits themselves work if you asked in a community dedicated to kerbal space program or children of a dead earth, focusing instead on what the person asking is probably trying to do. Similarly, a comment in a community dedicated to real life space exploration is getting a more detailed answer than the same question in a community for the general public. Basically different assumptions about what the person already knows, and what the person wants to find out.

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    24 hours ago

    Yes and no.

    I think that there is a fine line between dumbing something down and sounding condescending. In time, I found that not treating people like morons is the best approach, i.e. accessible language and simple explanations must be used to aid in the speed and understanding of the information you are disseminating.

    Because nobody wants to sit there and brainstorm something they don’t understand, they’ll just move on. But if you treat them like babies, people will just be annoyed and stop paying attention.

    So its quite the nuanced subject, communication is an art-form.

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      19 hours ago

      We’ve all seen the “I’m very smart” people who come to social media, use random vocabulary vomit because they want to sound smart, and it happens here a lot. I agree with you, that’s great if you can, and I won’t say you “have to dumb yourself down”, but often they do it to sound smart and want to feel superior because they think most people understand.

      Actually a lot of people do understand them, they’re just eye rolling at how pretentious they’re being.

      There’s a balance. After all why use many word when some word do trick?

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    As my favorite philosopher, Natalie Wynn, said

    I think it’s heartwarming gibberish but there is also, I think, a legitimate role in the discourse for heartwarming gibberish. Sometimes you have to explain what being trans is to a person who believes that dogs go to heaven and, in most circumstances, saying “I’m a female soul in a male body” gets the point across.

    As a disabled, trans, vegan, anarchist my life and beliefs are far more complicated than I could express in a comment section. So I tend not to lead with any of those labels and instead focus on quippy one liners about personal liberty from goverment or religious institutions.

    No random person wants to read my nuanced memoirs, but they will read and remember pithy snark. I’m an anarchist that sounds like a libertarian fool, but it’s the language that more people in mixed company relate to.

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      I’m disappointed there was no quippy one-liner or pithy snark in your comment. ☹️

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      I try not to label myself. it’s extremely limiting by design. and this is a space where those limitations don’t matter if you don’t let them.

      That being said I often self identify in the context of conversations about my interests.

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      A kind of politics-flavored smalltalk. Yes, that is the local dialect.

      Believe it or not, I have discussed subjects that matter deeply to me in online forums. But lately it’s just fruitless fishing.

      I think we have a thousand mob-squawks posing as niche communities. Different flavors, same conversations.

      Completely open and popular forums are not entirely a good thing.

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    I think everybody should “dumb themselves down” on social media. Since you can only assume other people’s background on a given topic and their grasp of (for example) English, you should write in a way that’s understandable to as many people as possible while still getting your point across. That’s just how good communication works.

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      I am not talking about better communication. If I was then I would have said “use a clearer style of speaking” or something like that.

      I am talking about limiting what you discuss to the popular and easily-digested.

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        I wasn’t just talking about using a cleaner style of speaking either. Choosing topics and the depth of these topics is part of communication as well. Those should be picked according to prior cues (the community you’re in, previous exchanged comments etc.)

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          “Should” is arguable. (For example you might be fishing for the few in the crowd) .

          But yes, your choice of topic. That’s what I’m talking about. Sometimes it looks pretty narrow.

          And if you do. Well, that carries with it it’s own bucket of implications.

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      I try to rewrite for an audience that’s unfamiliar with American idioms and will read any disagreement in a snotty tone of voice.

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    Closest things I use that’s social media adjacent was Reddit and now here. I would say the two sites after years helped me dumb things down. Which was a real problem for me before hand. In college I was told, I was brilliant and had all the answers but I had a real problem communicating with most people.

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    I do when I’m arguing with conservatives on Reddit. Otherwise I strive for clarity and simplicity but not dumbness