How do you install and use Insta without participating in Insta Bullshit? Im in a similar situation to OP and dont want this invasive cancerous tracking riddled stuff on my device. Obviously my solution has been to not install it , so far. But are you suggesting it Can be used in some sort of sandboxed / ringfenced way but where its msging still works?

Which Pixel is that out of interest ?

As there’s been a few mentions of apple/ios in the thread : https://www.apple.com/legal/privacy/en-ww/parent-disclosure/

There are several concerning, though unsurprising things to note, considering they collect data themselves, and have their own growing ad business :

“We may also use their information for internal purposes such as auditing, data analysis, and research.”

“ Strategic Partners At times, Apple may make certain personal information available to strategic partners that work with Apple to provide products and services, or that help Apple market to customers. Personal information from your child will be shared by Apple only to provide or improve our products and services; it will not be shared with third parties for their marketing purposes. “ and more . Might be of interest to some. The above quotes are both regarding Children’s data.

Are all of said family and friends IT savy , or you installed them at each site yourself? Interesting