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Cake day: September 29th, 2023

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  • getting accidentally hired and finally making enough.

    story: every job I’ve ever applied for in tech didn’t work out. I was a dishwasher until right before covid when someone recommended me for a cybersecurity position. Before that I had obsessed about FIRE or living in a car or being careful about too much starbucks or avocado toast… without making enough for a car or health insurance. That job paid ~half of what cybersecurity should pay, but was AMAZING. My next job paid just a hair under average, three years later. night and day, able to afford to exist without help.

    financial advice be damned. I couldn’t “find” anywhere with lower rent. I was in the lowest cost of living possible regionally. What needed to change was the PRIMARY job’s income rate, not adding some side hustle. Either make rent cheaper or find a higher wage.

    I’m not making enough to consider your next fancy moves like getting a house.














  • “Housing first” is the idea that most of life falling apart is from losing your most basic need: shelter.

    It’s stressful to keep a job, distancing from friends and dates and family, if you don’t have a home and smell weird

    Instead, when we give people homes without conditions, they can breath a sigh of relief, and have enough spoons to tackle the rest of the problems.

    As pointed out, or as might need to be pointed out, nobody builds something this expensive without considering the auxiliary social services to help people get out of the situation for the next occupant.

    It’s the most cost effective thing you can do, anything else is cruel, bureaucratic, and inefficient.

    If you already have a job and relationships and suddenly end up unhoused, the community letting that spiral to your job firing you is a failing of the whole town. It doesn’t have to, all we need is to fill those empty homes…