Try installing something from homebrew.

Oh you just want to install this one package here? Ok but let’s update 60 other packages first. Don’t worry, it will only take about one minute. Per package.

This was me the first time I tried using a Raspberry Pi, I'd never experienced an update taking longer than a minute or two before then

Is there a big reason to use apt-get instead of just apt? I don't think I've ever used apt-get in years, always using just apt.