Tbh, it shouldn't be "for a lady" it should be "for a person" Because I feel like to say "for a lady" is to encourage people to only ever help ladies. I know that's not what it actually is but it co.es across that way to me and could also easily get misunderstood by someone. I don't mean like they actively think "oh only women deserve nice gestures" but like a more subtle, subconscious misunderstanding…

I might be looking too far into things, but I need something to kill my time lol