That's what I do Im autistic and struggle with names already and tbh folks that have pronouns that differ from what they look like just fry my brain as that's another bit of Data I have to remember especially when there are multiple people like that
I'm very much the same way. Using everyone's pronouns perfectly, especially among people I don't know well, is a challenge. But all that's been required to get along with queer folks has just been a best effort and willingness to be corrected and move on.
That's what I do Im autistic and struggle with names already and tbh folks that have pronouns that differ from what they look like just fry my brain as that's another bit of Data I have to remember especially when there are multiple people like that
I'm very much the same way. Using everyone's pronouns perfectly, especially among people I don't know well, is a challenge. But all that's been required to get along with queer folks has just been a best effort and willingness to be corrected and move on.