It can be low effort, passive-aggressive, insulting or derogatory towards your convictions.

  • Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    10 hours ago

    So I’m a trans guy and as a kid I was very obviously masculine, stereotypical tomboy. One of my aunts that married into the family gave me, maybe around age 5-7, a toy makeup kit. To this day I don’t know wtf she was thinking, because it wasn’t like she never met or saw me. Was it thoughtless or passive aggressive? Who can say ¯\_(ツ)_/¯