This isn't about grieving, just assuming the complete absence of your family and all the inheritance.
I'd pay off my medical debt and go back to university. I'm so tired. I just want to learn and stop struggling. I don't even qualify for my own debt so I have to have it in someone else's name, being bound to an abuser…
Your family isn't poor if you can afford to take time off work just because your whole family died.
Sometimes it's not about being able to afford.
Aside from that, I can have an extremely poor family and yet still personally have a job that allows me time off for grief.
Poverty isn't a black and white issue
Are you missing a /s or something? What even is this comment lol