I know - I wasn't trying to say that you called men repulsive. I was just saying if you don't find dudes attractive, I hope that doesn't mean you are repulsed by them the way some homophobes claim to be. I'm lucky to be able to find attractiveness in both males and females (not all of them, certain ones). Many men have close male friends they are attracted to, but can't admit it - in some ways they are closer than any other relationship they have with women.