• simon574@feddit.de
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    1 year ago

    Because there are so many easier, safer, less awkward ways to check if someone likes me back or not. And if it turns out they do, I don’t need to confess anything, I just set up dates, or do nice things for them and see where that takes us.

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        1 year ago

        What? I’m never sure about anything these days. I just feel “I’ve always wanted to try this restaurant, would you be interested” is better than “I have to confess something … I’m totally attracted to you” That being said I’m in a committed relationship right now and it started with just spending time together naturally.

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          Because there are so many easier, safer, less awkward ways to check if someone likes me back or not

          Oh you said this. So I thought maybe you just knew when someone liked you. Like a tell during a poker game.

          I’m just in a situation where social norms where I live dictate that I shouldn’t ask someone out so I was hoping for insight on how to tell if someone is actually interested or not. Without straight up asking.